When we bought our first home it was perfect. Brand new with gorgeous light and modern hardwood floors, updated fixtures, a huge, beautiful modern kitchen with all new appliances, bright white trim and tons of natural light everywhere. It was just my hubby, my daughter, and I, in a perfectly gorgeous (yet modest sized) 3 bedroom home. Just as we were settling in, some news came along. I was pregnant (surprise!) with baby #2. And my little sister moved in with us on top of that! Suddenly this perfectly sized home became smaller and smaller until it felt like a cage. There were toys EVERYWHERE. We had no play space,…